BIG BEAR LAKE, CALIFORNIA. August 13 - 17, 2026
I AM : RESET
Big Bear Lake. A Luxury Retreat For Gay Men
All-Inclusive Experience Includes:
I AM:RESET retreat is a fully curated 5-day experience in Big Bear Lake, California. Once you arrive, everything is intentionally designed so you can relax and immerse yourself.
Accommodations
• 4 nights in a private luxury cabin
• Shared bedrooms
• On-site retreat team and facilitators
Culinary Experience
• Daily chef-prepared meals
• Snacks and refreshments
(All meals included once on site.)
Ceremonial & Guided Experiences
• Opening Fire Ceremony
• Hapé Ceremony
• Bufo Ceremony (optional) 🌿
• Sacred Mushroom Ceremony (optional) 🍄
• Daily integration circles
Movement & Workshops
• Yoga sessions
• Breathwork workshop
• Sound healing
• Identity & connection workshop
Excursions & Celebration
• Forest bathing hike
• Boat day celebration
Airport Transfer
• Roundtrip airport transfer included from Palm Springs airport. *Only on selected times and days of check in/out.
Meet the Curator
Eduardo Cordova is an experiential producer and curator of intentional spaces for gay men.
For over a decade, he has created large-scale events and meaningful gatherings within the LGBTQ+ community. Through that work, he recognized a deeper need — spaces not only for celebration, but for reflection, connection, and growth.
I AM:RESET is a natural evolution of that vision.
Blending elevated hospitality with thoughtfully curated ceremony, movement, and conversation, Eduardo creates environments where men can slow down, reset, and reconnect — without losing the strength, joy, and confidence that define them.
He does not position himself as a guru, but as a host — bringing together trusted facilitators, ancestral traditions, and intentional design to create a grounded and transformative experience.
At its core, I AM: RESET is about presence.
And remembering who you are.
Big Bear Lake • August 2026
A transformational five-day retreat designed to help you reconnect with yourself through sacred ceremony, nature, community, and intentional living.
Accommodations
Our private mountain lodge is reserved exclusively for retreat guests, creating an intimate and immersive experience surrounded by nature.
Nestled on three secluded acres bordering the national forest, the property features expansive mountain views, spacious gathering areas, outdoor decks, fire pits, fireplaces, and a game room designed for connection, reflection, and relaxation.
Guests may choose from private king rooms, shared queen rooms, or community-style accommodations, all thoughtfully designed to support rest, renewal, and transformation.
More than a place to stay, Steel Pine Lodge becomes the container for your journey inward.
Excursions
A guided forest bathing hike — slowing down, grounding through nature, and reconnecting with the present moment.
A scenic mountain immersion — reflection, fresh air, and intentional connection among the pines.
A private lake boat celebration — honoring the journey with joy, community, music, and time on the water.
Day One - MARCH 29Arrive & Meet
As guests arrive, we take time to settle into the villa, unwind, and begin connecting in a relaxed and intentional way. The pace slows, the space softens, and the journey begins.
Check-In3:00 pm
Guest arrivals3:00 pm - 6:00 pm
Welcome dinner7:00 pm
Intention fire8:30pm
FAQs
What airport should I fly into?
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For the most convenient experience, we recommend flying into Tulum International Airport (TQO), located approximately 40 minutes from the villa. This allows for a smooth and relaxed arrival compared to the longer transfer from Cancun.
Round-trip transportation to and from Tulum International Airport is included for all guests.
Where is the retreat located?
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The retreat takes place in a private luxury villa, located just 10 minutes from Tulum Beach and the main hotel zone. This is not a resort — the entire property is exclusively reserved for our group, ensuring privacy, intimacy, and a more intentional experience.
The villa, Hacienda Babylon, offers 24/7 security and is situated in a safe and quiet area of town, allowing you to fully relax and immerse yourself in the retreat without outside distractions.
What makes this retreat different?
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This is not a fitness or traditional yoga retreat, but an intentional ceremonial reset tailored for gay men, centered around temazcal, Bufo alvarius, and sacred mushrooms to help ground and recalibrate the system.
What is included?
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The retreat includes four nights, five days in a private luxury villa, all meals, round-trip transportation from Tulum International Airport, guided ceremonies (temazcal, Bufo, and sacred mushrooms), group workshops, excursions, and structured integration experiences.
What is NOT included?
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The retreat package does not include airfare, transfers from Cancun International Airport, gratuities, or optional massage and additional services.
Are there massages available?
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Yes, we have three professional massage therapists available for private sessions at an additional cost; please request the massage menu and pricing for full details.
Is there any free time?
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Yes, there is rest time every day designed for rest or integration.
How can I contact you?
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You can reach us anytime via our contact page or email. We aim to respond quickly—usually within one business day.